Today was another nursery day. As usual Maxi scampered off to grab a seat at the art table the instant I let her go, and as usual Midi insisted on: “One more kiss, Mummy. OK, another one. Last one. One more”, as well as “I love you, Mummy. Please don’ go”. For once I wasn’t in a tearing rush, so held her little hand and got her to help me put her packed lunch away, got her to show me which of her friends was her best friend today, that kind of thing.
As I’d planned, she spotted her very best friend and raced off, Mummy completely forgotten. I paused just out he door to peep through the window at how she was getting on. I guess her best friend S is incredibly popular, because another little girl got unhappy with Midi muscling in on them. She pushed Midi away and got physically between Midi and S. And kept shoving Midi away. This girl is 2 years older than Midi, but Midi is bigger. Still, instead of retaliating, Midi’s little face crumpled, she let out a sob and wailed, “Mummeeeeeee!”
I’m glad I waited. I nipped in, gave her a huge cuddle, wiped her tears and tried to engage her in some other activity. I tried not to glare at the pushing kid. I mean, I know it’s what 5 year olds do, and Midi needs to learn how to handle it, but I thought some very bad thoughts at that fat, petulant little face. Obviously I hate seeing some little brat make my precious little darling cry (the irony is very intentional – only a year ago it was Midi who was trying to eat/bite anyone that moved). One of the new staff members came over and skilfully won Midi over, then gently led her away. As I left, Midi was happily chatting away and blew me a big kiss.
I guess I’ll need to keep an eye out on this sudden meekness from Midi. Although it’s less antisocial than her biting, it’s not a good trait to have. Poor kid. I think she’s finding it really tough being the youngest in a very large and boisterous group. I think I’ll have a chat with the manager of the centre and get her opinion: should Midi keep going? Stay home with me? I’ve already given notice that from the end of term they’re finishing up there and staying home with me till August, when Maxi starts Primary School and Midi starts at the same primary’s pre-school class. The nursery isn’t even local – it was just the one right next to my work, and I let them stay there when I went on maternity leave and then stopped working so that they could keep that continuity and routine, in a place they were happy in.
In other news:
I was a very brave little soldier and phoned the dentist’s practice up yesterday about Maxi. I’m rubbish at phone calls and get my knickers in a right twist when I have to complain about anything. I may have mentioned last month that the dentist gave the girls the most cursory inspection ever, charged us tons, then raced out the door? Well, I decided to have a good look at her teeth myself. Normally The Boss supervises teeth brushing, and should ‘finish off’ for them. I wasn’t very impressed to see that Maxi’s teeth didn’t look too clean at all. Worse, there was a little brown spot on the side of one of her molars, in the little groove. It wouldn’t brush off. Damn! Cavity? Well, I had to do something, because if it was a cavity, it wouldn’t get better all by itself.
I thought about going to another dentist, and if it *was* a cavity, insisting on a refund from the original dentist. Silly idea. Then I got to thinking how ridiculous it was paying so much to get your 5 year old’s teeth checked anyway and surely to goodness there had to be an NHS dentist in the county somewhere? So I sat down with Yellow Pages and prepared for a very long phone round. Nope. Got one the very first (and nearest) place I tried. Bonus! Apparently the appointment won’t be through till August even if I register now, so I’ll do that this week.
Still, I had to do something about the (in-my-opinion) poor service from the dentist. So I called, explained why I felt my little girl’s teeth hadn’t been check properly, and asked for another dentist to see her. No way, only the dentist she was registered with could see her. Oh pants. I explained that I was incredibly embarrassed asking him to check again, as it was obvious I was second-guessing his professional opinion. “Oh no, he’s sooooo lovely!” sighed the receptionist. That’s as maybe and I believe you, I thought, but I still think he’s absolutely rubbish with kids. Anyway, then we had some toings and froings about whether I’d be charged for him checking that single tooth. The receptionist said I wouldn’t. But today’s receptionist, who phoned to remind me of the appointment, seemed to think I would. I suspect tomorrow might see the resurrection of Angry, Pompous, Old Trout. Besides, I hope, hope, hope that Maxi just has a brown stain on her tooth and doesn’t need a filling. Poor wee thing.
Last news: I sold 2 pairs of booties last night, so have been a tad busy desperately taking photos of them so that my lovely customer could inspect them over the net today and check they were what she wanted. They were the first and so far only 2 of my first limited edition collection (Pebbles) that I knitted because I got all inspired looking at the beautiful stripey sandstone pebbles on Cummingston beach. I’m going to have to get busy knitting more to replace them and get all the pebble inspiration out my system, because I’ve seen some 1ply that I just plain old lust after and
need want to buy. So I guess my posts here are going to get more sporadic and random because I’m struggling with finding time to do everything I need to do, never mind want to do. Och well! Think yourself lucky that I don’t spam my blog with photos of my knitting and constant plugs of my website 🙂